I Want To Teach With Tenderness So You Can Remember With Love
Without a doubt, you have come to a brilliant conclusion for your full and happy development. I want to teach you with tenderness, patience and dedication.
I do n’t want you to be afraid of me, nor do I want you to turn into an obedient, compulsive follower of my orders.
I don’t want you to pull away or suffer, nor do I want to hurt you physically or emotionally. That’s why I set out to be a mother who is not afraid of criticism from others.
I will defy the advice of yesteryear and dare to make my own rules in this game about your childhood.
I’m the one in charge of charting the course of your childhood and your life. That’s why I want to do it well, I dream of being the best mother you can have.
I know I’m not perfect. However, I want to put all my efforts so that you can grow in the best possible way. May you feel proud and grateful for the mother you had. May you remember your childhood as a sweet and pleasant stage, in which you learned surrounded by affection.
It is like this, my love, as I intend to teach you with tenderness, so that you can remember it with love and affection.
Give me your hand and let us follow this path together, our own adventure, our family history. Full of good and rewarding moments, but also bad moments in which the noble intentions prevailed.
how to teach you with tenderness
Teaching with tenderness and sweetness implies putting myself at the mercy of my patience and my temper. Dedicate quality time to yourself and prioritize frank and sincere dialogue above all things. Communicate smoothly, always making eye contact.
It’s also about learning to understand what your words say. Respect their silences, interpret their looks. Enjoy your smiles. Offer sweet dreams and children’s stories that leave you an emotional legacy.
Explain your value, reinforce your awareness of those capabilities that make you unique. Encourage you to do what you want so much, take care of your dreams. Feed every day the illusion and hope, as well as the love for life, which may not be ideal, but it is beautiful, without a doubt.
I will explain as often as necessary the reasons why I forbid some things. I will give you a thousand reasons to try to sow what you will reap in the future. I will earn your trust deservedly and I will take care of it as if it were the greatest treasure.
I will keep calm every time my soul asks me to scream. I will learn to ask for forgiveness as many times as it takes so that you can also learn from my mistakes.
I will hug and kiss you when you feel devastated. I will get tired of celebrating and highlighting what brings joy and satisfaction to your heart.
Teach with tenderness, break with what I was taught
Teach you tenderly to remember with love will be my motto as a mother. It might seem like a pretty simple mission. However, it is more complex than you believe, my son. Because it implies breaking with the concepts that are transmitted by past generations.
It implies not listening to and hurting the people who created, educated and trained us. From the outset – recognizing mistakes and successes – I must value the enormous maternal work of those who preceded us. However, I prefer to follow a different path.
From today and forever, I choose to undertake based on love and not fear. Exchange the scream for the perfect combination of thoughtful words.
Leave behind those cruel and painful words, for a world of possibilities to demonstrate to you your mistakes and that we can effectively learn from them.
That’s what I’m choosing my son: to teach you with tenderness, love, affection and affection. In this way, I leave aside all kinds of reprimands and physical punishments.
Yes, what I’m really looking for is simply that you can remember love, so I’ll try to give you my lessons. Love heals us, love builds.
